A funny, sexy, and wildly entertaining look at the rewards of fully realized desire in the life of one ordinary woman. In this fearless memoir, Pamela tells the story of her search for sexual, personal, and spiritual wholeness. She explores, in riveting detail, what she experienced at the hands of sexual healers, men who brought her untold pleasure (and became her close friends in the process). But this is not just another sex book: Shameless is also an account of how Pamela's journey healed her issues with food and body image and most important, helped her weave the many roles that she played―daughter, friend, partner, mother―into one fully integrated person. It is a story about a woman falling in love with herself and a call to other women to do the same.